Ladies, if you see a cutie when you are out and about, make eye contact and smile! That is the ultimate ice breaker! Men love it when you smile at them.
Then ask him a question or give him a compliment.
As a matchmaker, I tell my girlfriends to divide and conquer. Let say you are at a bar. My theory is that when you see someone you want to meet, you need to seize the moment and make it happen. If you are with a group of your friends and you see a cute guy, that cute guy is not going to be brave enough to come up to you and your group of friends to strike up a conversation. So, the rule is this: The person who is not alone should approach the person who is. Level the playing field so you are talking one on one. You have your friends as moral support. He does not. You should be giving him a huge clue that his approach is welcomed. Give him a big smile, buy him a drink, or walk up to him to strike up a conversation.
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